right vs wrong

No one has the absolute right to tell us whats right and whats wrong.

[You have to do whats right, Putri.] - What does that even mean?

 Believe it or not, to me, anything that is right is anything that I can get away with. Not that I am trying to tell you that I am rebellious or whatever, but if it is something that I love doing and I do not get approval for the things that I love doing, I will still do it, its just that its without any of your knowledge.

I cant really think of a solid example of me doing so. (proves that I haven't gotten away with anything, right?). Furthermore, people always have a say in what they think is right for you. Well, that is probably because they have had tons of experience dealing with such matter and, I know, not everyone likes being told what to do. But, it is also not easy starting from scratch.

[I am totally confused on which side im on but bare with me]

Some people have the chance to get away with what they want and some are destined to just deal with everything that comes their way. For example, if you see yourself in a position where everything that you want is in your possession (hard work required), you cant just simply judge a person who is doing opposite as you are. It could be that they are not as productive due to rejection of the things they love doing. YOU and I, have absolutely no right at all to tell that individual on what's right and what's wrong.

Some people sacrifice what they love doing here, just to please and obtain the love of people important to them (family, friends etc, family in particular). It is because they have a firm stand; their ultimate justification will be in the akhirah where Allah will be smiling and pouring his mercy out to that person. Doing what makes your family happy (as long as it is in accordance to the shari'a) will make Allah happy too, insyaAllah.

Which is why, I am against people who would do anything, even hurt their loved ones, to get what they want in life. Just to clarify, I am not saying what they're doing is wrong, no. Its just that, I wouldn't do that. But if that makes you happy, then go and head (: I do have a say for that though, even if you "think" or you are certain you dont love them and they dont love you, just remember what they've been through to bring you up. At the same time, there is also that possibility that they might not love you but whoa, too much negativity there. There are certain sacrifices you have to consider but, it still doesnt mean what you're doing is wrong because that is what you have decide yourself.

If it is right for you, then it is right. If it is wrong for you, then it is wrong.
In condition, no islamic laws are broken and it must also be based on the Quran and Hadith (:

Remember this, always.

Lastly, I would like to apologise first for neglecting my blog for a long time and second, for both supporting and contradicting to what I have to say about the topic above, that just got you confused.